anyone can explain me what the true definiiton about date? i met american diplomat who work in surabaya. and he said that im already dating with him. well i dont feel any interest feeling as a couple but yes as a friend. and he asked me to have a relationship with him. it gave me some afraidness if i say yes to him. bcoz he just temporarily work here. and another issue is it just another way to get fun and sex probally. what u think?