serious question 2

[Shazam]

I am looking for open minded people and by open minded i mean not conservative. I know this forum is where a lot of bullies like to say useless things and make fun of people's posts, but please dont do that.
I am not looking for sex, I am looking for a healthy sexuality. This city is full of whores; either asking for money or some other form of trade. That to me, is a very unhealthy and frustrating sexuality. I'm looking for an ally, someone I can be myself with, without having to filter anything. Indeed I am desperate; I feel like an alien here.

[waarmstrong]

You might try authoring a positive post about yourself, your interests and what you value in a companion. Negative fault finding is not very inviting.

[naughtygab]

you are looking for a girl in jakarta who is willing to have sex with unknown stranger for free then... no wonder you end up with whores.
try to understand the culture in here.
other sugestion is to buy a lot of soaps.

[sweetmaria]

"the city is full of whores" REALLY?

Tell me something, where in the world can you find a metropolitan with no whores or prostitutes or working girls?

You want sex? easy. As long as you got money and it's readily available around the globe.

You want relationship? Sure. It will require work. Don't expect sex when you want a relationship.

You want relationship with sex? that won't come cheap.

You want an instant relationship with sex? Good luck.

[fastpitch17]

I feel like an alien here.

You are. Never think otherwise.

[naughtygab]

shazam, are you calling us bullies???
or are you expecting to meet girls who would give you money after sex??

[rabbit_39]

I'm open minded.

[naughtygab]

and you promise you wont ask for money or stuff?

I'm open minded.

[rabbit_39]

I promise (fingers crossed)

[mr_riviera]

if you want clean sex, get married then.

[waarmstrong]

if you want clean sex, get married then.

On what planet might that be the rule?

[sweetmaria]

waarmie, soo true. I've seen soo many cases of housewives got HIV infection and cervical cancer due to their husband's behaviour.

[jstar]

if you want clean sex...

...wash yourself before and use a fresh waslap

[ScooterIndo]

Try and develop some social skills and build a relationship with a "good" girl. To say the city is ful of whores is a gross insult to all the hardworking girls in Jakarta that come from good families and actually have good morals and behaviour. Sounds like the issue isnt necessarily with the girls mate.

[shaking head]

waarmie, soo true. I've seen soo many cases of housewives got HIV infection and cervical cancer due to their husband's behaviour.

how can a woman get cervical cancer due to husband's behavior ?? Besides....there are also cases of husbands getting HIV infected due to their wife's behaviour