How are you today?

[naughtygab]

today is not really a good day for me. i have to deal and trust a group of people that i know cant be trusted.
so i had to talk to my boss about my doubt. and he tried to be in the middle as he is trying to make me stay in his team.
after a long discussion, and dismissed, he called the leader of the group, who has corrupted the data i need in order to have my job done, .. and she left my boss office with frowned face, look at me as i was her biggest enemy.
i dont care, as i know what i did was needed to save the company's integrity....

[jellygrapes]

today is not really a good day for me. i have to deal and trust a group of people that i know cant be trusted.
so i had to talk to my boss about my doubt. and he tried to be in the middle as he is trying to make me stay in his team.
after a long discussion, and dismissed, he called the leader of the group, who has corrupted the data i need in order to have my job done, .. and she left my boss office with frowned face, look at me as i was her biggest enemy.
i dont care, as i know what i did was needed to save the company's integrity....

Hi naughty, good on you for maintaining your professional integrity and speaking up. That is very difficult for most people to do, due to confrontation and other pressures....You have done the right thing and you can hold your head up high... I hope your colleague pulls her head in so doesn't give you any grief.... Good luck tomorrow!

[naughtygab]

thank you Jellygrapes. i dont really care about what other people ( in house) would says or comment about what i did.
i hate when someone think that creating fake numbers as data is good enough to cover up their mistakes (read laziness) .. and i can not tolerate it at all. esp when it would jeopardize someone's safety. am not afraid of tomorrow.. i know my boss is on my side for this case. thank you for supporting me jelly grape..

Hi naughty, good on you for maintaining your professional integrity and speaking up. That is very difficult for most people to do, due to confrontation and other pressures....You have done the right thing and you can hold your head up high... I hope your colleague pulls her head in so doesn't give you any grief.... Good luck tomorrow!

[jellygrapes]

thank you Jellygrapes. i dont really care about what other people ( in house) would says or comment about what i did.
i hate when someone think that creating fake numbers as data is good enough to cover up their mistakes (read laziness) .. and i can not tolerate it at all. esp when it would jeopardize someone's safety. am not afraid of tomorrow.. i know my boss is on my side for this case. thank you for supporting me jelly grape..

You're welcome naughty. You sound like a strong confident person so you can eat her for lunch if she looks at you like that again.... lol.

[naughtygab]

@jellygrape: ha ha .. am not really a strong person.. but my words could kill sometimes.

this morning my patience level is tested again. there's a prospective client asking me for some samples of some products ( in pictures) .. so i talked to the person in-charge. .. and he sent me different products picture, hoping i could make this new client interested ... i told him that i would share those picts together with the other products that this new client is looking for. so i hold the pictures he sent me since it's not what the customer expect to see. later on my colleague asked me, whether i have sent his pictures to this new client, i said no.

i would look so stupid when someone asked me for keychain sample, then i end up giving some pictures of umbrella.

[PhilippeD]

last saturday i did my friend's prewed pictures in bogor and this morning, she told me she officially break up with him. tho the wedding day is december. ... dunno what to do..

Two week later.... are they back together now?

[naughtygab]

Two week later.... are they back together now?

they are back together after 3 days later... and the wedding date is ON. *dasar alay*
we will have another prewed pictures next week.

[PhilippeD]

they are back together after 3 days later... and the wedding date is ON. *dasar alay*
we will have another prewed pictures next week.

Naaah! Told you!

[naughtygab]

ha ha ha .. but it became trending topic in the office ha ha .. so when he told us that he's back to her, we throw any stuffs at him.

Naaah! Told you!

[Della]

i need money to pay my bills

[naughtygab]

me too... , hmm maybe i should be doing something naughty to pay my bills. ...

i need money to pay my bills

[Alia]

Desperately need a maid.. !

My maid went home last Friday because her mother was hit by a car and being hospitalized. Poor woman, she was on motor cycle with her nephew and a reckless driver hit them from the back. The nephew is all right, nothing serious but some bruises and luckily he wore helmet, while she bumped her head with asphalt and having a concussion of the brain. Although the car's driver willingly to take responsibility of hospital cost, but it is really sad to hear how weak she is now. We plan to visit her in their village in Tuban this weekend and see what we can do.

But in the mean time, and apparently based on my latest call to my maid, she couldnt be back to work for unknown time. She needs to take care of the mother. Understandable, but such a bad news for me.

[naughtygab]

so sad to hear about your maid's mom. hope she'll get better and recover soon
too many drivers in indonesia who could not drive without endangering themselves and other people.

yesterday i almost hit 2 kids ( the driver was about 7 years old, and his little brother looks like 5 years old ) on motorcycle, no helmet, no slippers or shoes, at 8PM. they crossed the street from a house without even stopping to see left and right.
after that i saw a lady with jilbab on a motorcycle, one hand busy texting her cellphone, and one hand holding her jilbab ... so she was literally doing circus show.. and her motor was not running straight. so she hit one of the neighbor's sidewalk. and fell down. she get so angry ...
durring my morning jog i saw a mom driving a car, with a baby on her lap, and she was also busy texting ... while driving.

it's time to make sure only people who can drive are allowed to drive.

Desperately need a maid.. !

My maid went home last Friday because her mother was hit by a car and being hospitalized. Poor woman, she was on motor cycle with her nephew and a reckless driver hit them from the back. The nephew is all right, nothing serious but some bruises and luckily he wore helmet, while she bumped her head with asphalt and having a concussion of the brain. Although the car's driver willingly to take responsibility of hospital cost, but it is really sad to hear how weak she is now. We plan to visit her in their village in Tuban this weekend and see what we can do.

But in the mean time, and apparently based on my latest call to my maid, she couldnt be back to work for unknown time. She needs to take care of the mother. Understandable, but such a bad news for me.

[Puspawarna]

MOD NOTE: Participants are reminded that the honorable way to win an argument is through the strength of your reasoning, not by letting your temper get the better of you.

If you can't disagree with civility, maybe it is best to leave the thread. It's not enjoyable for other posters to read your bickering, and it isn't helpful or in keeping with the aims of the forum. PhillipeD and jim69, this applies to the posts that both of you have made.

[john madden]

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