How are you today?

[vania~]

@whatever: yeah i think I'm in the same position like your friend. omG im not sure how im gonna changing my career.. i really wanna take a course, study in culinary field abroad and working in there, but not sure how much it will cost or how to make it happen.. i should find out i guess
i know its not fun when working only for the money, exhausting right..
what about you, do you any plan later or after you finish with the study?

[Hendika Herdiman]

vania: I had a friend who work for money only (of course we work for money, but sometimes or, better, if we work with passion too), he told me how he tired he was with his job at that time, and he wanted to be a uni teacher. But then he could not do much. His job was good, he earned much money from that job, and he needed it for living. So yes, the thought of changing career was just angan-angan saja. What about you, what do you think you will do, V?

Dika: My BF and I never 'not talk for days because of arguing'. First, we argue rarely. Second, if we argue we always end it peacefully. There are times when we might hold the grudge or another thought, we'll always spell it out the next day or sooner. Basically we never not talking for days. Especially that I do LDR, to have a good communication is a top priority. If we have problems, find the solution, end it.

Thanks for your advice

[whatever]

vania: Well, my friend has been working for more than 15 years in the same field of job, so no wonder if he cannot just switch jobs ya. And you, if you have just started this, I think you still have a chance to find what you're really into. Cooking sounds promising, you could start your own business

Me? I cannot wait to finish my studies and start over with a new career, yeah work hard, earn and save money, make my family happy, travel the world, etc. But if I get married, the plans may change ha ha. We'll see...

[vania~]

haha yeah! i was thinking to open a 'warung' in front of my house, but i should figure it out later,

you like to travel? me too i really wanna to travel somewhere just to get lost with new people, making connection..
if you get married you can travel berdua

[PhilippeD]

We still in a relationship. But actually, we often end up not speaking to each other for days coz of arguing something.

have a read of this tread: Are Many Indonesian Girls Drama Queens?

[Hendika Herdiman]

have a read of this tread: Are Many Indonesian Girls Drama Queens?

Nope. But maybe my girlfriend might get into that list (Drama Queens) hehe...

[whatever]

Vania: I looooooooveeee traveling. It's just that I don't have the best opportunity for that. Yes, the best thing when traveling is to meet new people especially from different countries. It is fun! Yes, traveling berdua nanti. And BF doesn't like the idea of me traveling abroad alone (not even to Singapore or Malaysia; oh, or even Bali!). He said I should travel with him (outside Indonesia), much safer. Or with a friend (itu juga kepaksa ha ha).

[whatever]

Thanks for your advice

Ah, no I was just sharing. The thing is, my BF and I are different. I am submissive and he is dominant, so maybe that's why we are damai. Plus the fact that there is not much to argue, apa yang mau di-argue-in ha ha.

[vania~]

Vania: I looooooooveeee traveling. It's just that I don't have the best opportunity for that. Yes, the best thing when traveling is to meet new people especially from different countries. It is fun! Yes, traveling berdua nanti. And BF doesn't like the idea of me traveling abroad alone (not even to Singapore or Malaysia; oh, or even Bali!). He said I should travel with him (outside Indonesia), much safer. Or with a friend (itu juga kepaksa ha ha).

yeah same here, my ex wont let me travel alone too if im still his gf now
and even if i travel with my friends he will notice me to not wearing hot pants or bikini in front of people, especially men wkwkwkwk

[whatever]

yeah same here, my ex wont let me travel alone too if im still his gf now
and even if i travel with my friends he will notice me to not wearing hot pants or bikini in front of people, especially men wkwkwkwk

That is kind of sweet. My BF too ha ha. I think they are just being protective to their girls ya, V. And I like it, makes me feel safe.

[vania~]

That is kind of sweet. My BF too ha ha. I think they are just being protective to their girls ya, V. And I like it, makes me feel safe.

agree with you, youre right thats sweet, unfortunately he is my ex now lol xD

[whatever]

vania: enjoy your singleness until someone better come along

[PhilippeD]

Nope. But maybe my girlfriend might get into that list (Drama Queens) hehe...

Don't be shy!!!
It's just other people who talk about their experience... and I don't want have too rewrite here what I write there.
You don't need to write... just read.

It's always nice to see we are not alone in our situation.
From my expereince:
If you give attention to someone BECAUSE of his/her crisis, you can be sure he/she will do another crisis as soon as he would want attention.
- or -
If you give thing to your kid BECAUSE he is crying, you can be sure the next time he will cry as soon as he would want something.

Drama queen/king are kid who forgot to grow up

[PhilippeD]

the new comedy of my younger one:

She turn on herself, fake to fall, land softly on the carpet (she do that only on the carpet, she is not stupid, she don't want hurt herself), she get sure to fall face to me, give me a sad face for 2 second, stretch her hand to me with a smile and tell incomprehensible sentence asking me to help her to get up.
and repeat again... and again...

[LittleMonster]

the new comedy of my younger one:

She turn on herself, fake to fall, land softly on the carpet (she do that only on the carpet, she is not stupid, she don't want hurt herself), she get sure to fall face to me, give me a sad face for 2 second, stretch her hand to me with a smile and tell incomprehensible sentence asking me to help her to get up.
and repeat again... and again...

lol she might hv a gift to be an actress