Mix legal Marriage between Pakistani and Indonesian

[Akram]

[FONT=Verdana][SIZE=2]Hi,[/SIZE][/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana][SIZE=2]Woman are GOD art of perfection, this only came to know me after met an Indonesian girl (don’t like to mention her name here) past more than four years on the cyber world.[/SIZE][/FONT]

[SIZE=2][FONT=Verdana]This is very long story and seems like fairytale and we are trying to make it become true end of this year 2011 but I’m here not to tell you the story[/FONT][FONT=Wingdings][FONT=Wingdings]J[/FONT][/FONT][FONT=Verdana]… I found this forum very precious for me and hoping some good response for my questions / inquiries.[/FONT][/SIZE]

[FONT=Verdana][SIZE=2]Well, my name is Akram (holding Pakistani passport), staying and working since almost five years in Dubai, United Arab Emirates.[/SIZE][/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana][SIZE=2]I’m truly, deeply and madly in love with an Indonesian girl. I have visited her last month (February, 2011 was the best and happiest time of my life) and want to marry her. It might sound a bit shocking but I have come to this decision after lots of thinking. The fact is that I love her and I don’t want to quite without trying.[/SIZE][/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana][SIZE=2]Please be informed that we both are Muslim Allhumdillah and we have our family’s permission after our insisting.[/SIZE][/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana][SIZE=2]Kindly note below information’s and advice what are the procedures (required documents specially) need to be follow for the mix legal marriages in Aceh, Indonesia (easy to be marriage in Dubai, UAE but due to some reason has to be in Aceh, Indonesia) between two different nationalities Paki men with Indo female.[/SIZE][/FONT]

[COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana][SIZE=2]* Men country of origin : Pakistan[/SIZE][/FONT][/COLOR]
[SIZE=2][FONT=Verdana][COLOR=black]* Men country of residence : Dubai, UAE[/COLOR][/FONT][/SIZE]
[SIZE=2][FONT=Verdana][COLOR=black]* Men future spouse´s country of origin : Indonesia[/COLOR][/FONT][/SIZE]
[SIZE=2][FONT=Verdana][COLOR=black]* Future spouse´s country of residence : Dubai, UAE[/COLOR][/FONT][/SIZE]
[SIZE=2][FONT=Verdana][COLOR=black]* Men country of residence after the marriage : Dubai, UAE[/COLOR][/FONT][/SIZE]
[SIZE=2][FONT=Verdana][COLOR=black]* City where we will marry : Bireun, Aceh (Province)[/COLOR][/FONT][/SIZE]
[SIZE=2][FONT=Verdana][COLOR=black]* Wether a religious and/or civil wedding : Religious[/COLOR][/FONT][/SIZE]

[COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana][SIZE=2]I kindly seek here some assistance and support.[/SIZE][/FONT][/COLOR]

[COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana][SIZE=2]Thanks for your watchfulness in advance.[/SIZE][/FONT][/COLOR]

[COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana][SIZE=2]With best regards,[/SIZE][/FONT][/COLOR]
[COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana][SIZE=2]Akram Hussain [/SIZE][/FONT][/COLOR]

[nickie]

Please read these for your references:

http://www.expat.or.id/info/mixmarriages.html

http://www.expat.or.id/info/familylaw.html

http://www.expat.or.id/info/marriagelegalimplications.html

http://www.expat.or.id/info/prenuptialagreement.html

Because Pakistan is not on the Visa on Arrival (VoA) list so you will be required to apply for a visa overseas (in your home country/nearest Indonesian embassy before entering Indonesia)
More info here http://expat.or.id/info/docs.html

Indonesian Embassy address in Dubai:
Villa No. 1 Community 322/2A Al Hubaida, Dubai
P.O.Box 73759
Tel: (+971-4) 3985666, 3985103
Fax: (+971-4) 3980804
Email: [email protected]
Website: www.kjridubai.ae

If you browse around in the law section and expat marriage section, you can find lots of threads which can be useful for you.

[marcus]

I would also suggest you to tell your future wife to ask for the required documents at the marriage office (KUA , in your case) . Each office may have its own requirements , although probably not too different of what are mentioned in the references provided above by Nickie .

Other references :
http://www.livinginindonesiaforum.org/showthread.php/12678-ask-help-me!-Marry-a-german-citizen?p=127665#post127665

http://www.livinginindonesiaforum.org/showthread.php/15087-Questions-about-prenup-for-mixed-marriage

http://www.livinginindonesiaforum.org/showthread.php/11352-Simple-prenup-Notaris-fee-for-prenup?highlight=notary

http://www.livinginindonesiaforum.org/showthread.php/15282-Legalizing-birth-certificate

[Akram]

[FONT=Verdana][SIZE=2]Hi,[/SIZE][/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana][SIZE=2]Thank you very much for the above links and please be informed once again I have been visited her last February, 2011. I know some of specific countries included Pakistani passport holder wish to visit Indonesia is requested to get “approval entry/telex visa” by Jakarta Office before traveling and this was very challenged for me to prove that “Not all Muslims or Pakistani are terrorist” but with sadness in my heart, I can say that I was the victim of my country IMAGE.[/SIZE][/FONT]

[SIZE=2][FONT=Verdana]I would like to share “little part of my love story” and hoping allow by you guys[/FONT][FONT=Wingdings][FONT=Wingdings]J[/FONT][/FONT][/SIZE]

[FONT=Verdana][SIZE=2]Processing telex visa would need a sponsorship from Indonesia and I have applied four times thru proper channel from Indonesian Consulate in Dubai, UAE and hoping Indonesian Embassy would offer entry visa even I have hired few agent and paid approx thousand of US dollars in Jakarta to be my sponsor and taking care of my visa approval but unluckily every times faced some kinds of unacceptable excuses and problems.[/SIZE][/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana][SIZE=2]For my eight months hard struggle (various mails, calls and visits to Indonesian consulate in Dubai) made inspired to head of visa section incharge and finally he granted me visa on behalf of his own responsibility without any approval by Jakarta head office. After that I got two more countries visas very easily (Malaysia and Singapore) as I have showed them that I’m interest in visiting countries for the purpose of tourism as well as to visit friends.[/SIZE][/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana][SIZE=2]I didn’t face any problem for the clearance by two countries Immigration (Malaysia and Singapore) except Indonesia as my indo visa was not showing approved by Directorate General of Immigration of Indonesia and I was held at the airport for the questioning / clarifications. I never showed my girl on the picture (on the visa my sponsor was a guy her university friend) as going to do seems like impossible but I was trying to make it I M POSSIBLE. I got released (allow to be enter in Indonesia) after almost one hrs investigations (required some documents by my sponsor) by the head of Immigration officer (he’s so kind for me) and I was with my destiny (the best and happiest days in my life to be with her).[/SIZE][/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana][SIZE=2]Well, sorry guys if made you here boring actually I got some information regarding documents for the marriage between us. I’m here wanted to be confirming by who already faced and experienced for this kinds of situation.[/SIZE][/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana][SIZE=2]Let me share information’s by one service provider and kindly support me if some more or less documents required for the marriage.[/SIZE][/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana][SIZE=2]Quote:[/SIZE][/FONT]
[FONT=Verdana][SIZE=2]First of all you have to contact your Pakistanis Embassy in Jakarta in order to get "a letter of consent" -- you can ask directly to your embassy what required documents in order to get "a letter of consent". This letter is required in order to get married with Indonesian lady in Indonesia.[/SIZE][/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana][SIZE=2]And then as soon as you know how to get it, the other required documents for getting married are[/SIZE][/FONT]
[FONT=Verdana][SIZE=2]1). Copy of your passport - full pages[/SIZE][/FONT]
[FONT=Verdana][SIZE=2]2). Copy of your birth certificate[/SIZE][/FONT]
[FONT=Verdana][SIZE=2]3). Original Divorce letter if you have ever got married before[/SIZE][/FONT]
[FONT=Verdana][SIZE=2]4). Photo 2x3 cm = 4 ea color[/SIZE][/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana][SIZE=2]From your future wife:[/SIZE][/FONT]
[FONT=Verdana][SIZE=2]1). a copy of her KTP & KK[/SIZE][/FONT]
[FONT=Verdana][SIZE=2]2). N1,N2.N3.N4 provided by "Kantor Kelurahan" in Aceh[/SIZE][/FONT]
[FONT=Verdana][SIZE=2]3). Original Birth Certificate[/SIZE][/FONT]

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[SIZE=2][FONT=Verdana]With best regards,[/FONT][/SIZE]
[SIZE=2][FONT=Verdana][COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana]Akram Hussain[/FONT][FONT=Wingdings][FONT=Wingdings]J[/FONT][/FONT][/COLOR][/FONT][/SIZE]

[ScooterIndo]

Akram - i thought the term Paki was derogetory ??

[Akram]

Hi,

Need to grow our mind.

[Ismichan]

Hi.. I think we have the same issue... but I am in the woman side. I have a boyfriend from Pakistan, not talking about the marriage yet, but I know soon or later we will face this issue. Moreover, after now he is graduate from university and asking me to look for a job for him in Indonesia, so we are one step closer.

Anyway, how is ur plan to marry her, so far?? Can u share us some of ur story... especially about the papers issue. Thanks and success for u.

[Akram]

Hi.. I think we have the same issue... but I am in the woman side. I have a boyfriend from Pakistan, not talking about the marriage yet, but I know soon or later we will face this issue. Moreover, after now he is graduate from university and asking me to look for a job for him in Indonesia, so we are one step closer.

Anyway, how is ur plan to marry her, so far?? Can u share us some of ur story... especially about the papers issue. Thanks and success for u.

Hi,

I m sorry for late replying as very rarely visiting this forum.

Well, nice to knowing that we are not alone and many couples are on the same shoesJ
Yes, we are much closer to our marriage and waiting to get approval for visa as plan for next month (March, 2012).

Papers issue as we have researched and got information’s with many successful couples (mix marriage), NOT so much difficult in order to get marry with Indo girl but only visa part (might only for me).

Document Required For NOC for Marriqage with Indonesian Girl.

1. The bridegroom has to provide for original affidavit from his parents that he is not
previously married that is authorized to marry with an Indonesia girl .the affidavit has to be duty attested by the Ministry of Foreign Affair Islamabad ,in case of second marriage permission from his first wife also needed.

2. The Willingness Certificate from the girl parents that they allow to marry with the Pakistani man.

3. Family registration card or Kartu keluarga of the Indonesian Girl.

4. Identity card of the girl

5. surat keterangan untuk nikah issued by RT,RW,KELURAHAN ,KUA

6. Willingness of the girl that she to marry without force with Pakistani man and will not come to embassy in case of any dispute between them

7. Photocopy of (CNIC), POC and valid Pakistani passport

8. Fee RP.185.000

THIS NEW RULE FOR THOSE PAKISTANI MAN WANT MARRY WITH INDONESIAN GIRL FROM PAKISTAN EMBASSY.

[Nimbus]

She is beautiful, I can see why you would jump through numerous legal hurdles to marry her. Best of luck to both of you.

[Ismichan]

Well, I was planning to visit Pakistan embassy here.. to ask that, But thanks to u, I wont be bothered to do that.. (at least, for now..) I can inform my bf bout this... thanks again.Yes, she is pretty... as a girl I admit it. Wish both of u luck and happiness.

[Akram]

She is beautiful, I can see why you would jump through numerous legal hurdles to marry her. Best of luck to both of you.

Thank you Injun and you all right she’s not only beautiful, art of perfection (more than perfect especially her inner beauty) from the GOD as well and I’m counting myself the luckiest guy in the world

Thanks once again for blessing

[Nimbus]

Thank you Injun and you all right she’s not only beautiful, art of perfection (more than perfect especially her inner beauty) from the GOD as well and I’m counting myself the luckiest guy in the world

Thanks once again for blessing

I completely agree, inner beauty is far more important.

Please post your progress, as I'm sure there are other Pakistani and Indonesian couples that would benefit from your experience.

[Akram]

Well, I was planning to visit Pakistan embassy here.. to ask that, But thanks to u, I wont be bothered to do that.. (at least, for now..) I can inform my bf bout this... thanks again.Yes, she is pretty... as a girl I admit it. Wish both of u luck and happiness.

@Ismichan,
Thanking you for your blessing n be informed that we would be happy to serve u in view of our almost 6 year’s long experience.

I guess, you are from Jakarta and this will help you in order to arrange visa for ur bf.

[lantern]

Where are you both going to live?

[Akram]

Please post your progress, as I'm sure there are other Pakistani and Indonesian couples that would benefit from your experience.

@Injun,
Yes sure but I found myself with bad English so I do present my sincere apology here in case of facing difficulties to be understandings by me.