How do you react facing any harasment or abusing against women in indonesia?

[angelapowiro]

yes, how do u face it ? coz i ever been harrashed (almost) near bundaran HI
really harrashed in west jakarta....saw an exhibitionist then some days the harrashment happened.......i think women always be the best target for criminals to do their action here. we have weak guards and no cam everywhere like in singapore

maybe next time i will bring spicy bottle to take care myself as defensive tool

[Alia]

Yes Angela, it happened to me too once, many years ago.

I was walking alone in a street, it was a jalan tikus, but the closest way to my office, and I always took that road every morning. Which right after that day I swore I wont do that again, and prefer to walk further to avoid that ugly unpleasant experience.

And there was that psyco, he probably was waiting for every girls that will pass that street. There is a motorcycle park over there, so it must be his. I notice it from the far, and when I got close to him, he just opened his zip, and take his property out, laughing at me, saying nasty things, like : "cewek, liat sini dong, enak nih.."

Urgghhhhh ..!! If only I brought any pistol I really would shot that psyco. Luckily he didnt do any closer movement, and he just standing where he stood, still playing with his thing (I think, I didnt bother to look), saying every dirty talks he could recall.

I almost run, but I tried to not to, just speed up my walk. I dont think it'll be wise if he knew I was afraid. He could do anything worse.

It took quite long time for me to pull my self back together when I got to my office. Really not a good experience.

[TheJester]

Alia, you should have walked seductively up to him like you wanted him, then kicked him in the gonads. That would generally stop any more playing with self from the offender.

[Alia]

Yes Jester, you right, I should have done that. It surely would make that psyco learn his lesson.

I'll remember your advice for some other time for my own sake, but hopefully there wont be some other time. Once is more than enough to add the story in my life, and I sincerely wish no other girls would experience such thing.

At the time like that, normally we girls would only think the fastest way to get out of there, immediately. And sometimes, couldnt even think clearly enough whilst we would feel very threatened for our honor.

[TheJester]

Yeah, I wouldn't think it was a nice experience. Not really about honour, but more about safety.

[Nimbus]

Alia, you should have walked seductively up to him like you wanted him, then kicked him in the gonads. That would generally stop any more playing with self from the offender.

Bad idea. The sicko could be dangerous and there's no telling whether he's armed. The satisfaction is not worth the risk.

[TheJester]

He was armed...

but he was busy using them to play with himself.

[Pimpin]

Flashers get off on the typical reaction most women give them when they expose themselves. Best to just keep walking look at his "property" (I like that) laugh and remark, "That little thing? Is that all ya got" and leave. Of course if its huge that wont work and if your into that kind of thing you could set up a date.

[angelapowiro]

haha...a date for what ?

[R35553H]

Flashers get off on the typical reaction most women give them when they expose themselves. Best to just keep walking look at his "property" (I like that) laugh and remark, "That little thing? Is that all ya got" and leave. Of course if its huge that wont work and if your into that kind of thing you could set up a date.

You can always go "Is that real or that's your mom's dildo?"