looking for soulmate (girls only)

**jinlove** · 28-10-12, 13:13

hi all,

actually i really embarrased to write this, but im convincing my self that i have to do it.

so...let me introduce myself..im a single man looking for my soulmate, i've tried of any dating sites but no progress. im 30 yo, straight, black hair, chocolate skin, average shape, height about 170 cm, weight 75 kg. i work as health consultant in public health specialty.
i had a relationship with an expat before, she's very lovely and cute, but our relationship wasn't last long. i tried to keep this relationship, but something just not right. we had this communication problem, not in language but every time i sent her message, it takes 24 hours before she answered, i just wondering what happened. i tried to ask her once and she said its because a bad signal at her home and her office, but i didn't get that, because her home is in the middle of the city (mampang). and i've found it that she's trying to runaway with my money, she ask me once to help her for a money, she said its for her sick aunty, but i finally found that her aunty wasn't that sick like she mentioned to me, aunty just had a mild flu. and i have to ended this relationship. yes, im a doctor, and yes i had money, but i just have enough money not rich.
so..i hope i can find my soulmate who really care and love me just the way i am. oh..yeah..i forgot to mention, i dont have a car

regards,

jinlove

**waarmstrong** · 28-10-12, 13:41

Having a car is good.

**jinlove** · 28-10-12, 13:58

Originally Posted by waarmstrong

Having a car is good.

yes ofcourse..but i just want to know if there's someone who look at me as me, not as a driver

**sweetmaria** · 28-10-12, 14:10

Jin, before you posted this have you tried to join any gatherings? Forum gatherings maybe?

If you're that desperate, there are female forum members who are as desperate as you are, but they're too shy to post it on the forum.

**jinlove** · 28-10-12, 14:15

Originally Posted by sweetmaria

Jin, before you posted this have you tried to join any gatherings? Forum gatherings maybe?

If you're that desperate, there are female forum members who are as desperate as you are, but they're too shy to post it on the forum.

thanks maria
i would like to join if there is any gathering..i just never get an invitation

and is it ok for me to join female forum, i thought that forum only for female..

**jinlove** · 28-10-12, 16:04

any suggestion please...

**Soham** · 28-10-12, 16:14

I believe someone posted long back that this is not a dating site. Although i do feel for you and it does come across as desperation. I'm sure dating sites are a much better bet.

**naughtygab** · 28-10-12, 20:57

where did you meet this girl? sounds like a girl that one would meet in some clubs
if you are looking for a rite one, try to find her in the rite places.
we have some gathering events.. but my question, would you be able to control yourself when you see some pretty girls during the gathering ?
i had an experience of a gathering where there are some white people hunters who drooled everytime a white guy came to our gathering.. that sickens everyone in the group. and those girls would never be invited again.

Originally Posted by jinlove

hi all,

actually i really embarrased to write this, but im convincing my self that i have to do it.

so...let me introduce myself..im a single man looking for my soulmate, i've tried of any dating sites but no progress. im 30 yo, straight, black hair, chocolate skin, average shape, height about 170 cm, weight 75 kg. i work as health consultant in public health specialty.
i had a relationship with an expat before, she's very lovely and cute, but our relationship wasn't last long. i tried to keep this relationship, but something just not right. we had this communication problem, not in language but every time i sent her message, it takes 24 hours before she answered, i just wondering what happened. i tried to ask her once and she said its because a bad signal at her home and her office, but i didn't get that, because her home is in the middle of the city (mampang). and i've found it that she's trying to runaway with my money, she ask me once to help her for a money, she said its for her sick aunty, but i finally found that her aunty wasn't that sick like she mentioned to me, aunty just had a mild flu. and i have to ended this relationship. yes, im a doctor, and yes i had money, but i just have enough money not rich.
so..i hope i can find my soulmate who really care and love me just the way i am. oh..yeah..i forgot to mention, i dont have a car

regards,

jinlove

**jstar** · 28-10-12, 21:30

Originally Posted by jinlove

and is it ok for me to join female forum, i thought that forum only for female..

We're in the wrong place Bill.

**Banana72** · 29-10-12, 00:45

Just my .02 if you ever join a dating site...may not wanna start off your introduction with the sappy story on how you got screwed (not in a nice way either) by a female expat who wanted your money. That story AND not having a car..not a recipe for success.