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    Myself (Scottish) and wife (Indonesian) married when I was 49 and she was 28.
    That was 26 years ago come 5 January 2013.
    We have traveled the globe, never been apart for more than a month, and the age difference has never been an issue.
    One requirement for wedlock was neither of us wanted to have children...that also has never been an issue. We had plenty enough nieces and nephews and now grandnieces and grandnephews.

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    So he is 12 yrs older than you, well i think it doesn't matter as long as he can give you happiness, you're just dating huh.. . But if you are about to go further with him, think twice

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    Quote Originally Posted by Davita View Post
    Myself (Scottish) and wife (Indonesian) married when I was 49 and she was 28.
    That was 26 years ago come 5 January 2013.
    We have traveled the globe, never been apart for more than a month, and the age difference has never been an issue.
    One requirement for wedlock was neither of us wanted to have children...that also has never been an issue. We had plenty enough nieces and nephews and now grandnieces and grandnephews.
    nice, its just 16 years gap between you and your wife right..i can imagine both of you are happy since you have same vision on your life. so you have been with her almost 26 years? oh God, such a beautiful relationship you have guys!

    Quote Originally Posted by nimasps View Post
    So he is 12 yrs older than you, well i think it doesn't matter as long as he can give you happiness, you're just dating huh.. . But if you are about to go further with him, think twice
    hihi, he is not 35. i said almost of them are up to 35. them means who have approached me (it doesnt mean that i date them).
    Everything will be ok in the end. If its not ok, its not the end

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    Quote Originally Posted by pimawola View Post
    nice, its just 16 years gap between you and your wife right..i can imagine both of you are happy since you have same vision on your life. so you have been with her almost 26 years? oh God, such a beautiful relationship you have guys!
    My calculator tells me that it is 21 yrs difference.. hehehe!! Sorry.. could not help it :-) Don't worry about age, Pima, if the kimia is right, follow what Nike tells u.. Just Do It!! hehehehe :-D

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    Yup, if its right its right. The gap between me and my wife is 24 years. Ask anybody who knows us what they see.

    We are happy, and to be honest if others dont like it thats there problem not ours.
    Great spirits have often encountered violent opposition from weak minds. Albert Einstein

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    lol, i dont know whats happened here. but really thanks for your opinion
    Quote Originally Posted by Tiger Eye View Post
    My calculator tells me that it is 21 yrs difference.. hehehe!! Sorry.. could not help it :-) Don't worry about age, Pima, if the kimia is right, follow what Nike tells u.. Just Do It!! hehehehe :-D
    Quote Originally Posted by jim69 View Post
    Yup, if its right its right. The gap between me and my wife is 24 years. Ask anybody who knows us what they see.

    We are happy, and to be honest if others dont like it thats there problem not ours.
    hmmmm ya i saw it already,,, let me say this kind of beautiful understanding from all people that i want to have if i have partner of life and he is much older than me
    Everything will be ok in the end. If its not ok, its not the end

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    hi! i'm a newbie in this forum!! i'm a 20yo female. okay i only have two exes, and both of them are the same age as I am. but it has always been my dream to date older man, like... 5-17 years older than I am perhaps when I was 13-14 I had this huuuuuuuge crush to a man who is 17 years older than I am. but sadly it didn't happen but we remain friends ever since and to be honest i still got a little crush on him because i really really wanna know what it's like to date older man but i havent got the opportunities.

    i think that age is only a number, but I dont want a man who have the same age as my dad. i think it'll be like dating your own dad :/ and I think the society will judge harshly (indonesian people is hypocrite you know) if the age differences between a couple is too far, like the man is the girl sugar daddy or something, beside if I'm dating a man who is waaay older than I am--- let's say, 43, my parents will freak out because my daddy's age is 45 and they will be like "ohmygod my daughter's dating a man who is only two years younger than i am"
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    Quote Originally Posted by airiasthya View Post
    hi! i'm a newbie in this forum!! i'm a 20yo female. okay i only have two exes, and both of them are the same age as I am. but it has always been my dream to date older man, like... 5-17 years older than I am perhaps
    when I was 13-14 I had this huuuuuuuge crush to a man who is 17 years older than I am. but sadly it didn't happen but we remain friends ever since and to be honest i still got a little crush on him because i really really wanna know what it's like to date older man but i havent got the opportunities.

    i think that age is only a number, but I dont want a man who have the same age as my dad. i think it'll be like dating your own dad :/ and I think the society will judge harshly (indonesian people is hypocrite you know) if the age differences between a couple is too far, like the man is the girl sugar daddy or something, beside if I'm dating a man who is waaay older than I am--- let's say, 43, my parents will freak out because my daddy's age is 45 and they will be like "ohmygod my daughter's dating a man who is only two years younger than i am"
    Thats totally true. that was my reason why i asked such a question. but most of all are fine with that, so nothing to worry about.

    anyway..welcome to the forum and enjoy yourself
    Everything will be ok in the end. If its not ok, its not the end

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