Indonesian Women

**Vivian Handstrong** · 09-11-12, 13:43

Originally Posted by Davita

'mastered'...that's an odd expression...as a lady.....shouldn't it be 'missed'

Hihihi, or Mistress-ed...?

**lovelicious** · 27-12-12, 07:51

Originally Posted by inipunyahanee

Hehehhe... But it's true isn't it? There's nothing kind of theory can prove man virginity?.Actually it's not what I meant...if you want to have serious relationship with someone, you should honest and tell the truth to your partner....and I think it's rare to found a western man who still virgin....or did I miss something?

But, what if it's inversely....how about a western guy who have indonesian girl who wants to keep her virginity until their wedd..

1.) There is no exact theory as to prove a man's virginity, but I believe you can tell from the way he treats you in bed. Does he seem awkward, in a rush or unsure, or does he act normal - I think you can tell from that, I know I can.

One of my friends told me about her first time. The guy only lasted a minute. hehe

2.) Well, it's not that rare actually. If you are talking about 14-17 year oldies that is.

I'm not a virgin anymore, lost it 3 years ago. If a guy has a problem with that then whatever, he can just go his way. I refuse to be judged by my sexuality. I was born and grew up in a Catholic family, and believed in "no sex before marriage". However, that belief changed after I moved to the West. Now I believe that women, just like men, should be treated and judged by their personality and capability instead of their sexuality. Does my sex life affect my personality? I don't think so.

When a friend in Indonesia asks me about my virginity, I used to say that I'm still a virgin because I know that's what they want to hear. However, I'm visiting Indonesia again next summer, and if a friend asks about it again I'll answer with,"Can you handle the truth? If no, then don't ask."

Simple as that.

**Chubby_vie** · 28-12-12, 10:02

Hmmm... interesting topic. I've been asking the question myself. But I think I don't mind if your man is not a virgin as long as he is loyal to me throughout our relationship.

**Alia** · 28-12-12, 10:18

Originally Posted by Chubby_vie

But I think I don't mind if your man is not a virgin as long as he is loyal to me throughout our relationship.

What ..?? You dont mind that my man is not a virgin and he is loyal to you ??

**Chubby_vie** · 28-12-12, 13:40

Upps... corslet between my brain and my hand. Hahahaha....
I mean I dont mind if my man isn't a virgin as long as he is loyal. If both of us are virgin, maybe we don't know what will we do next on our wedding night.
ok.. imagining too much. will stop here..