One of my friends told me about her first time. The guy only lasted a minute. hehe
2.) Well, it's not that rare actually. If you are talking about 14-17 year oldies that is.
I'm not a virgin anymore, lost it 3 years ago. If a guy has a problem with that then whatever, he can just go his way. I refuse to be judged by my sexuality. I was born and grew up in a Catholic family, and believed in "no sex before marriage". However, that belief changed after I moved to the West. Now I believe that women, just like men, should be treated and judged by their personality and capability instead of their sexuality. Does my sex life affect my personality? I don't think so.
When a friend in Indonesia asks me about my virginity, I used to say that I'm still a virgin because I know that's what they want to hear. However, I'm visiting Indonesia again next summer, and if a friend asks about it again I'll answer with,"Can you handle the truth? If no, then don't ask."
Simple as that.