Broken Heart

[Alia]

You were broken heart. But you see him/her everyday. There is no way to ignore him/her nor to run away from him/her in order to unable to see him/her, you have to face his/her existence like it or not. Despite your sensitiveness and strength you are trying to build, you feel sad still.

What to do when you feeling blue, when seeing him/her means rolling back all the sweet things you both had. When knowing he/she is no longer into you.

[Sopie]

I would get very very drunk so I will be so damn hangover that I would forget the pain in my heart, just focus on my physical recovery. Then I would listen all musics that can make me cry, shout, lay down on the floor, and why not, dance. I would put passion in my pain as I did in my love, but give me a deadline. Suffering is good, for a day or two. Suffering too long is not good. I would definitively take holidays if I can and go away for a week or a month. I found physical distance very useful to take distance with any painful situation.

[redsnapr]

In my home country we have a say: Un clavo saca otro clavo, that literally translated is "a nail pushes out another nail". Find someone else....

[tonymontana]

http://www.articlesbase.com/dating-a...-ex-20231.html

I've found this pretty helpful recently. It's a long process, but results will come.

Best of luck.

[phokas]

If you still have to see someone everyday, try to reduce all the other contact....facebook etc... Then do lots of new things, start a new hobby, do something creative, learn to paint, play an instrument or take a class in something new. Its good to grieve and feel the pain, it's healthy to work through it, but it needs to be balanced out with activities that take your mind away from it for a while.

[Carrot Cake]

I think love is so overrated. When someone dumped you, it actually hurts your pride more than your heart cos your heart knows he doesn't deserve it.

Come on, Girl. Don't waste your time looking back. Ignore him and move on. Thousands of boys out there waiting for you to come out from your shell with an open arms, you know it. Take it as your lucky day. Life has given you a second chance to find a better man.

.... and an excuse to have lots of rebound sex. ^^

[Carrot Cake]

I Need Some Sleep by Eels

Everyone says
I’m getting down too low
Everyone says
You just gotta let it go
You just gotta let it go
You just gotta let it go

I need some sleep
Time to put the old horse down
I’m in too deep
And the wheels keep spinnin’ round

Everyone says
I’m getting down to low
Everyone says
You just gotta let it go
You just gotta let it go
You just gotta let it go

You just gotta let it go
You just gotta let it go

Just gotta let it go

[Kuntarini]

The prescription I believe the best for brokenhearted and gaining weight is : Travel!

Set & manage the trip independently, don't ask tour operator to do it, take the oddest destination we can afford, and explore. There's always new exposure that is opening new perspective, no matter how much we have traveled before. All of those faster the process, it seems that yesterday is already far behind in the 3-day of traveling.

The second prescription is : join a community of hobby. Meeting new guys somehow helps to reshape the perspective that actually the world is too big to worry

And the best tip of all, if he was mean to you, is : dump him. We're hard to get over someone because actually our heart has not dumped him yet. We won't lose what we actually never have, he's not as that precious for our future, so....dump him. He'll turn to be not as that precious anymore in our eyes, so he's being around wouldn't itch our heart that much.

[bow chicka wow wow]

ahhhh.. know that feeling only too well. we WILL always reminisce about what we could not have... no matter how happy we are presently.

i would combat the feeling by improving myself in every aspect so i can look them in the eye and say it out loud in my head: HAH! Your loss!

in the meantime, i concur with cc's comment. definitely time to enjoy a lot of hot rebound sex!

[tonymontana]

I'm in a very similar situation, Alia. I work at the same school as my ex-girlfriend. It's VERY difficult to concentrate or 'get over' her when I see her every day and am reminded of moments of happiness that we shared. What makes it all the more bizarre is that I was the one that did the breaking up, but I am still wracked with doubt and nostalgic yearnings for at least a couple of hours a day! Either way, it was the right decision for where we both are in our lives right now, and I need my heart to catch up with my brain in that department.

It's a process, as I said before; the only thing I have definitely learned so far is: if it's easy, you're probably not doing it correctly. If it's difficult, you're making true progress. Sucks, I know.

As for rebound sex: if there's a sign-up sheet going around, someone put my name on it!