I have had other topics explaining, my situation.
To make it short, my wife will never support me, by sponsoring my marriage kitas. We are married officially in Indonesia as a protestant. And the children have 2 nationalities, Dutch and Indonesian.
My children are there, and I could come with a sosio budaya visa or tourist visa. But I got limited facilities like no bank account or use of my local driving licence and I have to get out of the country.
I would like to stay in Indonesia to see my kids growing up. As far as i have researched, there is no special visa for a father to visit their children.
I need to have a sponsor my lawyer said.
Does anyone knows if there is another way for a long term stay legally without any hassle with immigration etc?