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Lando86
28-02-09, 02:29
I'm watching -The L Word- Showtime (American TV Show)

So I was just curious if there's anyone who is GLBT here.. not that it matters.. but it seems all the expat guys have already married to or in relationship with their Indonesian Lady

and the expat girls are mostly single or already involved with someone from their origin country.


They say 10% of the population is gay. so I'm thinking there must be one or two people here who are not straight.

It's 2.30 in the morning, I can't sleep, and I'm such a nosy person :p didnt mean to offend anyone. :p

Mauricio
28-02-09, 02:55
I'm trysexual...

Any transmigrasi folk here?

smatams
28-02-09, 03:18
It's 2.30 in the morning, I can't sleep, and I'm such a nosy person :p didnt mean to offend anyone. :p

You guys should be in bed...

ohmdafyd
28-02-09, 09:49
I'm watching -The L Word- Showtime (American TV Show)

So I was just curious if there's anyone who is GLBT here.. not that it matters.. but it seems all the expat guys have already married to or in relationship with their Indonesian Lady

and the expat girls are mostly single or already involved with someone from their origin country.


They say 10% of the population is gay. so I'm thinking there must be one or two people here who are not straight.

It's 2.30 in the morning, I can't sleep, and I'm such a nosy person :p didnt mean to offend anyone. :p

When I saw the title of the thread I thought it must be Indousa, again!
Frankly, who gives a shit!..I'm intriqued as to why you would ask such a thing?... t
It has occurred to me that there are at least a couple of homophobics here tho', from reading between the lines of some posts!..eg; I'm not Gay! ..who cares in this day and age..except that orginisation of 'Defenders of Islam Front.. ooooh, perhaps I better go back into hiding in my safe house again after saying that :}

Ishtar^Summer
28-02-09, 14:25
Eventho there's at least one person who is gay here
i dont think (s)he'll be coming out from closet in forum

spice
28-02-09, 14:39
im bi

Black Adder
28-02-09, 15:36
Okay, okay already, it is time to come out of the closet. I will share with you my secret..............

















































I am a lesbian trapped in a man's body. Finally my secret is out...........

stt_cibubur
28-02-09, 23:37
and I am a gay trapped in a woman's body forever...watch out boys... A gay is coming!!

Lando86
02-03-09, 10:39
I am a lesbian trapped in a man's body. Finally my secret is out...........

so you would be lesbian-identified man?


Eventho there's at least one person who is gay here
i dont think (s)he'll be coming out from closet in forum


why not?



When I saw the title of the thread I thought it must be Indousa, again!
Frankly, who gives a shit!..I'm intriqued as to why you would ask such a thing?... t
It has occurred to me that there are at least a couple of homophobics here tho', from reading between the lines of some posts!..eg; I'm not Gay! ..who cares in this day and age..except that orginisation of 'Defenders of Islam Front.. ooooh, perhaps I better go back into hiding in my safe house again after saying that :}


lol even the general public do not accept gay people. still. it's sad. i know

Ishtar^Summer
02-03-09, 14:02
why not?







coming out is not easy as snaping ur finger
takes lotta time and thoughts
and when it happen u think they'll do it in a straiht forum?
People like u will just make fun of them

Lando86
02-03-09, 17:22
coming out is not easy as snaping ur finger
takes lotta time and thoughts
and when it happen u think they'll do it in a straiht forum?
People like u will just make fun of them


This is a straight forum? SINCE WHEN? this is a forum for expats... not for the heterosexuals..

People like me will make fun? excuse me? i have lots of gay and lesbian friends. In fact, I like hanging out with them more than with straight people. they're much more fun and freeing. Call me anything but homophobic.

I'm not asking them to "come out". I'm asking if there's any GLBT people among these expats. It sort of implies, that means people who are already out.

I suggest you to google what "coming out" really means. I know plenty other forums where GLBt people are comfortable discussing their sexuality on the internet even if they're still in the closet in real life.

baliexpat
02-03-09, 17:46
What was the point of this thread?

Lando, how would you say gays are treated here in Indonesia?

Lando86
02-03-09, 18:59
What was the point of this thread?

Lando, how would you say gays are treated here in Indonesia?


there was no point, really. i was just curious.

bad. really. people still think just because they're who they are, they'll hit on the first man/woman they see. and that's just ridiculous. and the worst part is people still think they HAD A CHOICE to be different.

ohmdafyd
03-03-09, 06:25
I suggest you to google what "coming out" really means. I know plenty other forums where GLBt people are comfortable discussing their sexuality 'on the internet' even if they're still in the closet in real life.
with total anonymity of course .. :}

Ishtar^Summer
03-03-09, 11:19
This is a straight forum? SINCE WHEN? this is a forum for expats... not for the heterosexuals..

at least its not a gay forum, where gay interact each other, feel free to confess anything


People like me will make fun? excuse me? i have lots of gay and lesbian friends. In fact, I like hanging out with them more than with straight people. they're much more fun and freeing. Call me anything but homophobic.

I'm not asking them to "come out". I'm asking if there's any GLBT people among these expats. It sort of implies, that means people who are already out.

I suggest you to google what "coming out" really means. I know plenty other forums where GLBt people are comfortable discussing their sexuality on the internet even if they're still in the closet in real life.


I suggest you to google what "coming out" really means. I know plenty other forums where GLBt people are comfortable discussing their sexuality 'on the internet' even if they're still in the closet in real life.
with total anonymity of course .. :}

@Oom
Thank You
U Just Reply Exactly Whats On My Head..
:)

@Lando
how naive you are expecting any gay expat will confess to this thread

Black Adder
03-03-09, 11:32
@Lando
how naive you are expecting any gay expat will confess to this thread


Hey Hey I came out, I am a Lesbian and if any lesbian wants to check me out and prove me different then let the physical inquisition begin..........

Ishtar^Summer
03-03-09, 12:35
Hey Hey I came out, I am a Lesbian and if any lesbian wants to check me out and prove me different then let the physical inquisition begin..........

Seriously BA :D

beebop
03-03-09, 14:14
Well i dont know about the people from this forum but last year when i was in jakarta i saw a couple transvestites dancing and running around all the cars at some place. I cant remember where it was but my fiance says that they live on the streets. She says she likes their company because they helped her a while back when someone tried to mug her, one of those transvestites beat up the mugger and saved the day :D

Lando86
03-03-09, 14:17
at least its not a gay forum, where gay interact each other, feel free to confess anything

Doesnt matter. Why should gay people should feel free in a gay forum. please, people. Gay, straight, bi, we're all the same.

Jpopmusic.com is not a gay forum and yet they have this http://jpopmusic.com/forums/viewtopic.php?f=16&t=43133&start=0

CarForum is not a gay forum either but they're very open to its members who are not straight www.carforum.net








@Oom
Thank You
U Just Reply Exactly Whats On My Head..
:)



Actually you're contradicting yourself with that statement.



@Lando
how naive you are expecting any gay expat will confess to this thread

What confession? Geez, don't be so homophobic. Most expats here are westerners and I don't know if you notice that in the west, people have more freedom to discuss their sexuality.

Homopbobia is not good for you, Ishtar.

stt_cibubur
03-03-09, 14:48
Very often I go out with Gays and Lesbian but nothing different really..just like normal person... and..I dont mind hanging out with them either...

b33j915
03-03-09, 23:50
San Francisco is the "Official Gay Capital" of the world and you have no idea of what the term....Freedom....really means unless you attend the world reknown "Gay Pride Parade" or the "Folsom Street Fair". Liberties abound buddy...let me tell you.

I did see a few tranvestites in Indonesia, one area in particular and they were as happy as can be, just dancing in the streets and carrying on like it was their birthday. I was a bit shocked at first as my initial impression of Indonesia was "absolute repression" but after seeing what a glorious time these guys...excuse me gals were having; I thought to myself

Wow...SF, LA revisited.

BTW, beyond a shadow of a doubt, my city's number #1 in the US:)

Live and let Live....need I say more?

Black Adder
04-03-09, 00:03
Thats the stuff B, and I don't want anybody referring to me as that lezzy bitch anymore.........

JohnJohn2
05-03-09, 12:34
Ehm, I am gay so you can count me in the 10% hehe.:D

Al.Gray
07-10-09, 03:12
Yeah, nevermind, we're all the same but all different, everybody has their preferences, likes and dislikes.Wouldn't do for us all to like the same things. If those guys want to be gay, let 'em, leaves more ladies for us, right boys?

Mas Fred
07-10-09, 06:08
Yeah, nevermind, we're all the same but all different, everybody has their preferences, likes and dislikes.Wouldn't do for us all to like the same things. If those guys want to be gay, let 'em, leaves more ladies for us, right boys?

Do I detect a little modified Blackadder there?
Remember Edmund going to the quack when he fancied 'Bob'?
If you don't, I have all four series and the specials in WMV format. That and a bit of portable data storage will correct that sad state of being.

I'm unsure anyone actually decides to be gay. I suppose people just are or not. Still, the effect is much the same. More totty for the lads. :evil: :bounce:

exiledgooner
07-10-09, 10:57
i once had a gay hit on me at plaza senayan

live and let live but i told him to please leave me alone or i would place one of those golf clubs, in that shop opposite, where the sun don t shine

TheJester
07-10-09, 11:31
i once had a gay hit on me at plaza senayan

live and let live but i told him to please leave me alone or i would place one of those golf clubs, in that shop opposite, where the sun don t shine

You do realise that is exactly what he would have wanted you to do?
:bounce:

Mas Fred
07-10-09, 13:09
i once had a gay hit on me at plaza senayan

live and let live but i told him to please leave me alone or i would place one of those golf clubs, in that shop opposite, where the sun don t shine

I've had that one here. I was walking down the street in a nearby town.
Doing nothing but mining my own business and enjoying a look around a new town. A lad walked up and asked if he could suck me.
I'm a bit 'live and let live' but that's well OTT for me.
He was told he would get something hard in his mouth if he didn't bog off but it would have five clenched fingers attached.
No you dirty sods. Not my fingers clenched around that. :bounce:

Al.Gray
07-10-09, 15:46
Do I detect a little modified Blackadder there?
Remember Edmund going to the quack when he fancied 'Bob'?


No,this is just me,totally original and so funny (to look at, at least).Was never into Blackadder personally, as it's a bit tame for my tastes, and a bit gay too, no offense.

Mas Fred
07-10-09, 16:00
No,this is just me,totally original and so funny (to look at, at least).Was never into Blackadder personally, as it's a bit tame for my tastes, and a bit gay too, no offense.

I like the daft comedy and Blackadder hoits the spot for me.
Not to worry about offence, I'll pop to Jogja and spank you over a pizza.
Unless pizza hut is too gay. :bounce:

gffgold
07-10-09, 18:47
'Out' gays and lesbians make up a very small minority of the population but a somewhat larger proportion of the most talented part of it.

Mas Fred
07-10-09, 19:08
'Out' gays and lesbians make up a very small minority of the population but a somewhat larger proportion of the most talented part of it.

That has some truth in it. Look at Freddy Mercury. Bloody genius.