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How many posts do you think it would take a member to stop posting if nobody ever replied to any of them?
Ok I will stay around a while longer I suppose.
Lantern, you screwed up !!!!
Looks like it
lets try it over again then :D
K. And this time how about some opinions of numbers of posts.
http://cdn.livinginindonesiaforum.org/images/icons/icon1.png Member Departing From The Forum
How many posts do you think it would take a member to stop posting if nobody ever replied to any of them?
K. And this time how about some opinions of numbers of posts.
http://cdn.livinginindonesiaforum.org/images/icons/icon1.png Member Departing From The Forum
How many posts do you think it would take a member to stop posting if nobody ever replied to any of them?
I think some posters wouldnt notice they get no replies.
Some just go after 1 attempt... if they have no confidence.
Some plug away and modify how they come across and build up a resillience
and then some well lets just say that some feed on anything that is thrown their way... probably even silence.
I rarely post - I am shy.
Missnaughty
14-11-11, 12:36
This is one... :) keep counting.. Arent I irresistible... ;) btw, i will have no internet connection starting tomorrow.. But will be back again after new year..
tfft
:)
I must admit Pimp when I saw your thread i thought you were going to do a runner... :P
Well I dont know if there are cases where someone posts on and on and got no replies at all. I know some who barely get replies and they are still around.
I have to disagree. Someone who feeds off of replies and attention wouldn't do the same from silence. One is food. The other is nothing. Worth a try to experiment. Nope, not saying.
depend on what's the thread's content about, if u post thread about sharing knowledge or " something they must know " to forumners, i don't care No reply or not, as long as they "READ". if my thread about my personal request for example... " looking for salsa teacher " like one of my thread, as long as i get enough info then i will close that thread bcos i think - that should be enough... -
How many posts do you think it would take a member to stop posting if nobody ever replied to any of them?
I find this thread a little absurd, rather I should say that I could not understand the genesis of this thought. Since most of the people here do not know each other, definitely there is no personal reason for anybody to ignore someone's posts. The only reason could be that a person posts a totally misfit, stupid, irrelevant or absurd response or thread, but, look at the forum carefully and you will find enough people on this forum who don't spare such posts either. There will definitely be a response, even if it is to criticise the poster.
john madden
14-11-11, 16:48
Crusader - it's a legitimate question to pose, even if there's no hidden message there - which I suspect/hope there is. And as for your contention "...there will definitely be a response.." it only takes a quick leaf back through even this channel (arguably one of the liveliest) to spot posts that drew no response.
I find this thread a little absurd, rather I should say that I could not understand the genesis of this thought. Since most of the people here do not know each other, definitely there is no personal reason for anybody to ignore someone's posts. The only reason could be that a person posts a totally misfit, stupid, irrelevant or absurd response or thread, but, look at the forum carefully and you will find enough people on this forum who don't spare such posts either. There will definitely be a response, even if it is to criticise the poster.
Happens often, dont know why you would think it is so absurd.
@Kingwilly and John - OK, my perception, may be I haven't seen it happening so far and that experience leads to my perception OR may be I need to spend some more time on the forum analysing such phenomenon rather than simply enjoying the posts, posting experiences, sharing thoughts etc. :noidea:
ponyexpress
14-11-11, 17:52
What kind of post that doesn't get replies? I found that post about relationship and vanity seem to get more responses. But not good responses or advices. This is because we like to take the piss.
I keep my eyes on all kinds of posts, have to watch for gross ones like that of _noir.
Some intro/hello threads get pretty low number of responses, and i sometimes wonder if those newcomers will feel ignored and unwelcome.
Some intro/hello threads get pretty low number of responses, and i sometimes wonder if those newcomers will feel ignored and unwelcome.
They're not informative enough to generate curiosity. I did have the same feeling when I was the first time in the forum that I would end up getting ignored but I simply posted and posted till I now rack-up what, 1000+ posts? The problem with some of the newbies is, at least how I see it, they think as if we write thousands of posts overnight and therefore they're not eligible to jump into the threads where everybody's supposed to be treated equally regardless of the number of posts.
On the other hand, one of the mods had a pretty short (and I would say weird) introductory post and got it replied anyway, and now he ends up ruling all of us. :)
ponyexpress
17-11-11, 17:26
They're not informative enough to generate curiosity. I did have the same feeling when I was the first time in the forum that I would end up getting ignored but I simply posted and posted till I now rack-up what, 1000+ posts? The problem with some of the newbies is, at least how I see it, they think as if we write thousands of posts overnight and therefore they're not eligible to jump into the threads where everybody's supposed to be treated equally regardless of the number of posts.
On the other hand, one of the mods had a pretty short (and I would say weird) introductory post and got it replied anyway, and now he ends up ruling all of us. :)
Who are you referring to Ricky? :noidea:
Coolest intro ever (http://www.livinginindonesiaforum.org/showthread.php/16263-Newbie?highlight=melbournian).
ponyexpress
17-11-11, 18:33
Coolest intro ever (http://www.livinginindonesiaforum.org/showthread.php/16263-Newbie?highlight=melbournian).
I hate to say this. But apparently it is because of my charm. :smokin:
I hate to say this. But apparently it is because of my charm. :smokin:
Charm can go hand in hand with weird, you know. :whistle: OMG I forgot you're the Dr. Dimwit. :hail:
Pak Gondrong
17-11-11, 23:15
lol I still dun have an intro post, I think missed my chance to be ignored :P
lol I still dun have an intro post,
Me neither. I should think about writing one.
Missnaughty
18-11-11, 03:53
depend on what's the thread's content about, if u post thread about sharing knowledge or " something they must know " to forumners, i don't care No reply or not, as long as they "READ". if my thread about my personal request for example... " looking for salsa teacher " like one of my thread, as long as i get enough info then i will close that thread bcos i think - that should be enough... -Totally agree.. But dont worry about closing it.. It usually close by itself.. You start with salsa teacher it may end up with yoghurt :p
What kind of post that doesn't get replies? I found that post about relationship and vanity seem to get more responses. But not good responses or advices. This is because we like to take the piss.Proof : My mayo thread has less response than my LV, yet many readers out there need their mayo.
Me neither. I should think about writing one.Yeah... I dont remember having one too.. Is it too late to do it now?
Some intro/hello threads get pretty low number of responses, and i sometimes wonder if those newcomers will feel ignored and unwelcome.
or cos 27 people all saying "Yah hello and Welcome"
sorta feels quite naff.
Many intros say very little but, "Hi Im a new member. Looking forward to getting to know everyone and posting in the future". Other than "Welcome...." what else can you say to that? I know some posters then ask them questions but often they go unanswered. I much prefer replying to someone who not only says hello for the first time but either tells us something about themselves, asks a question, tells us something of interest or all of this. Very few and far between.
Pony's intro didn't say much about her/him. But now...s/he has subjected us to intimate details of her/his horse outfit and dungeon. Is that what you mean by "something of interest" Pimp? I don't want to know THAT much :madgrin:
No its not.
It seems not so common for new posters to write so little in an intro and then become prolific writers here.
This is why I once brought up the idea of putting up an intro recommendation sticky.
Pony's intro didn't say much about her/him.
Actually, I disagree.
It spoke volumes.
Puspawarna
18-11-11, 15:02
I know I've started at least two threads that got zero responses. One was "where can I rent tables and chairs"? and the other was "where can I find a banjo teacher in Jakarta"?
From the cruelly indifferent lack of response that I received, I can only conclude that forum members allow their party guests to stand around mournfully without a spot to park their derrieres (or, worse yet, forum members don't host sit-down dinner parties for dozens of people at once), and these same inconsiderate forum members do not have the decency to strum the banjo for relaxation and entertainment. WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH YOU PEOPLE?
I know I've started at least two threads that got zero responses. One was "where can I rent tables and chairs"? and the other was "where can I find a banjo teacher in Jakarta"?
Sorry, I dont know.
I could ask the boss.
Do you still need them ?
vin.vierge
18-11-11, 15:18
Me neither. I should think about writing one.
me neither, joined this forum for almost 2 years now
log in on and off
for me back then this forum is simply a media to answer questions regarding social, law, travel, employment, politic, and other issues faced on daily basis
back then the subject is much serious and definitely less member than now and definitely never found any husband searching advertisement for sure :popcorn2:
its also reminds of the fairygodmother (fairygodmom)? where is she now..
Im sure most of the current active member never know whos fairygodmom
ponyexpress
18-11-11, 15:22
Pony's intro didn't say much about her/him. But now...s/he has subjected us to intimate details of her/his horse outfit and dungeon. Is that what you mean by "something of interest" Pimp? I don't want to know THAT much :madgrin:
I know that I didn't write much about myself. But I thought it's better to introduce myself to all members by engaging in the discussion or writing a post like Dr.Dimwit.
No its not.
It seems not so common for new posters to write so little in an intro and then become prolific writers here.
I have been here for less than a year. So do you think many newbies with short intro will lurk for a bit then leave?
Actually, I disagree.
It spoke volumes.
Damn, I need to spread the love before I can give it to you again, KW.
its also reminds of the fairygodmother (fairygodmom)? where is she now..
Im sure most of the current active member never know whos fairygodmom
been MIA for a long time.
(s)he got sick of fights etc here.
Puspawarna
18-11-11, 16:38
Sorry, I dont know.
I could ask the boss.
Do you still need them ?
Still need the banjo teacher!
Table and chairs are supposed to be delivered "late tonight." I shudder to think what "late" means ....
Pak Gondrong
18-11-11, 17:03
Still need the banjo teacher!
Table and chairs are supposed to be delivered "late tonight." I shudder to think what "late" means ....
You got your banjo?
I know I've started at least two threads that got zero responses. One was "where can I rent tables and chairs"? and the other was "where can I find a banjo teacher in Jakarta"?
From the cruelly indifferent lack of response that I received, I can only conclude that forum members allow their party guests to stand around mournfully without a spot to park their derrieres (or, worse yet, forum members don't host sit-down dinner parties for dozens of people at once), and these same inconsiderate forum members do not have the decency to strum the banjo for relaxation and entertainment. WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH YOU PEOPLE?
*I remeber the first indonesian wedding ceremony which we were invited. We were looking for chairs with my husband and there was nothing! Guests just eating and eating as much as possible and they were not looking for chairs and tables at all.
*I think most of the indonesians are relaxed people.I haven't seen any angry indonesian during my stay in Jakarta.Sometimes I feel that I am watching slow motion movie when watching indonesians . I had a post about"share your favourite relaxing music here." It has no replies. The topic seemed intresting and new for me.I concluded nobody needs or thinks about relaxing music seriously!
Puspawarna
18-11-11, 20:45
You got your banjo?
Yes, I do indeed have a banjo.
I have been here for less than a year. So do you think many newbies with short intro will lurk for a bit then leave?
Yes and I think they are more likely to not be involved much here for long. Numbers will say no matter how long an intro is, most will not stick around but ones with shorter intros are even less likely. If they stuck around there would be a hell of a lot more regular posters.
Also most of the posters currently who write short posts, aren't really stimulating discussion but wanting to "make friends" won't be around in another month or two. Others will replace them and the cycle continues.
I know a guy here who plays the banjo but I'm not sure he is good enough to teach.
oh, I replied your thread, puspawarna even before I opened this one :)
But well.. I'm an on and off member, so maybe I can't really represent the majority of active member :p
waarmstrong
19-11-11, 11:05
... I think most of the indonesians are relaxed people. I haven't seen any angry indonesian during my stay in Jakarta...
It would appear you are yet to experience the disposition of Indonesians once they get behind the wheel.
[QUOTE=Mina_H;211082*I think most of the indonesians are relaxed people.I haven't seen any angry indonesian during my stay in Jakarta.[/QUOTE]
You obviously don't attend a certain place of worship in Bogor nor are you an Ahmadiyah adherent. :)
Still need the banjo teacher!
Table and chairs are supposed to be delivered "late tonight." I shudder to think what "late" means ....
cant help with the banjo teacher in jakarta ..., but type in banjo lessons into youtube , there are more than enough to keep you occupied for a long time .... and theyre free .
It would appear you are yet to experience the disposition of Indonesians once they get behind the wheel.
I must say, even behind the wheels Indonesians are quite disciplined and clam with a few exceptions, which are always there and bike riders of-course.
waarmstrong
21-11-11, 14:46
Disciplined? Not may experience; your "exceptions" swallow the rule. But I agree, the bikers are worse.
Disciplined? Not may experience; your "exceptions" swallow the rule. But I agree, the bikers are worse.
Perceptions are always the byproduct of relative experiences. May be I have seen the worst, which makes me feel this way.
john madden
21-11-11, 19:50
Disciplined? Not may experience; your "exceptions" swallow the rule. But I agree, the bikers are worse.
Let's not forget - in another thread Crusader expressed the belief that littering was not widespread behaviour amongst Indonesians.
bow chicka wow wow
21-11-11, 21:48
Let's not forget - in another thread Crusader expressed the belief that littering was not widespread behaviour amongst Indonesians.
i don't believe littering is part of a culture. you see litters on public transportation and not-so-nice areas all around the world. this is down to inconsiderate people who happen to exist everywhere, and not just in a certain country.
ps. i'm dedicating my avatar to you, kw!
john madden
22-11-11, 07:01
I repeat myself from another thread - on remonstrating, frequently, with Indonesian friends and relations about them throwing rubbish on the road/in the river I receive the response: "It's OK John this is adat Indonesia."
ps. i'm dedicating my avatar to you, kw!
Kewl !
Let's not forget - in another thread Crusader expressed the belief that littering was not widespread behaviour amongst Indonesians.
And John Madden has a difference of opinion ? I think you must read the thread, with a mention about littering and the one that you refer above, once again, what I said was something different and it meant that we should not generalise a race or a nationality becasue of a behaviour of some individuals.
Had I known that you have a difficulty in understanding english language...I would have suggested you to take some classes with KW and Warmie :bounce:
I repeat myself from another thread - on remonstrating, frequently, with Indonesian friends and relations about them throwing rubbish on the road/in the river I receive the response: "It's OK John this is adat Indonesia."
So, what does John do then ? Litter on the road like they do or give them a lecture on cleanliness, sanitation etc ?
Had I known that you have a difficulty in understanding english language...I would have suggested you to take some classes with KW and Warmie :bounce:
laugh a minute you are.
john madden
22-11-11, 12:59
So, what does John do then ? Litter on the road like they do or give them a lecture on cleanliness, sanitation etc ?
The latter, but not in lecturing mode, rather in an attempt to educate about cause and effect. And always politely.
And in fact it is you who are being selective in your memory of the other thread. You suggested I was referring to a few "spoiled" individuals I believe. And please don't indulge in insults about my or KWs English language skills.
waarmstrong
22-11-11, 13:07
If its not generalized behavior, the few bad-apple litter-bugs must really get around.
And please don't indulge in insults about my or KWs English language skills.
Please refrain from bringing in cross references of threads and if you have to do that, please paste a link to the thread being referred to so that nobody is mis-guided.
Also, please subtantiate your claim that I, in any way, insulted your or KW's english language skills. You refered to an old post of mine and clearly mis-interpreted the writing. In such circumstances, the obvious inference is that you are not comfortable with the language. The other inference could be that you were trying to stall me, which is a negative thought and I prevented it from entering the discussion.
is this why members are departing from the forum?
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