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"I never really knew what people meant by 'taking it slow' in a relationship, but I sure as hell do now!"
Tony Montana
Good then you are a perfect candidate to fill me in on what it means. I have heard this several times lately but it doesn't mix with what I always thought it meant.
To you (whoever) what does "taking it slow" in a relationship mean?
"I never really knew what people meant by 'taking it slow' in a relationship, but I sure as hell do now!"
Tony Montana
Good then you are a perfect candidate to fill me in on what it means. I have heard this several times lately but it doesn't mix with what I always thought it meant.
To you (whoever) what does "taking it slow" in a relationship mean?
Uhm, trying to bunt your way in instead of eyeing for the home-runs all the time.
Pimp,
I've noticed two other threads written by you with the same topic and same OP, then subsequently deleted by you with the input from other posters it already had. Is that a bug from the server or was that intentional? Just asking.
Getting the clothes off??
Hombre de Maiz
06-04-11, 11:59
"Let's take it slow" = I have to say that for the sake of appearances and propriety so that you don't think I'm easy, but as soon as we finish our drinks and I'm feeling a little more relaxed, I am ready to go back to your room, take off my clothes and let you poke me any which way you want.
Snowy city
06-04-11, 12:24
Mas Robb Signature Alon-alon asal kelakon or Biar Lambat asal selamat
I think let's take it slow in this country often means you gotta marry me before I let you poke me.
Snowy city
06-04-11, 13:33
Gampang..don't poke her if you don't want to marry her....
Hombre de Maiz
06-04-11, 13:48
The trap of the pre-modern mind: the failure to distinguish among sexual relations, matrimony and paternity/maternity.
Gampang..don't poke her if you don't want to marry her....
Are you referring to a FaceBook "Poke"?? I always thought that feature was a little unethical.
I'm taking it slow, if at the first date we will only look at each other with normal polite glance while having our dinner or lunch.
I'm taking it slow, when by his body language he wants to kiss me on my lips, instead just giving him my cheek to be kissed after our first date.
I'm taking it slow if he wants to touch my boobs after several dates and I just allow him to kiss me on my mouth.
I'm taking it slow if he wants to do more than that and explore my body with his hands and more than hands, you know .. like tongue but I said, no not yet.
I'm taking it slow if he wants to marry me but I think I still want to have my single life and developed my career more further than marry him and have kids for somehow it will stop for some reason before it continue again.
I'm taking it slow......
stt_cibubur
06-04-11, 16:52
You wont like my answers for sure
"Take it slow" mean: Spending more time together, small touch, holding hands, but..don't go straight to bed...
Taking slow also mean not ready for serious/committed relationship.
Don't get her Up Dove before married...lol:nono:
Taking it slow means setting aside several hours to play...starting with teasing the biggest sex toy we have... the mind :)
That is taking it slow.
The rest is just boring marriage trap stuff.
bugger?
I don't think that could be construed as taking it slow by most but maybe that kind of act is for you.
Hombre de Maiz
06-04-11, 17:50
The LAPD didn't exactly take it slow, did it?, with Rodney King...
Snowy city
06-04-11, 20:05
I'm taking it slow, if at the first date we will only look at each other with normal polite glance while having our dinner or lunch.
I'm taking it slow, when by his body language he wants to kiss me on my lips, instead just giving him my cheek to be kissed after our first date.
I'm taking it slow if he wants to touch my boobs after several dates and I just allow him to kiss me on my mouth.
I'm taking it slow if he wants to do more than that and explore my body with his hands and more than hands, you know .. like tongue but I said, no not yet.
I'm taking it slow if he wants to marry me but I think I still want to have my single life and developed my career more further than marry him and have kids for somehow it will stop for some reason before it continue again.
I'm taking it slow......
I enjoy reading this post.....^_^
Taking it slow means setting aside several hours to play...starting with teasing the biggest sex toy we have...
Bugger
Yikes!
Yikes!
lol lol lol
you are soooooo nakal ChillyWilly
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tonymontana
06-04-11, 21:45
Sorry to take so long to reply to this...
What I meant by 'take it slow' was that it's a tendency of mine to just throw every single ounce of my energy into the girl that I'm into. With my most recent relationship, we both had that tendency, so we isolated ourselves to the point of being completed cut off from the rest of the world. While that sounds romantic and lovely, the reality is that you can't rely on someone else for your happiness. I made that mistake, and I will do everything in my power to make sure that it doesn't happen again.
The girl I end up with will be comfortable with herself and trusting enough to let me be me. Inshallah!
TM
Ok so sex is a go then from the get go?
And slowly means you will give less of your time and self to her in the beginning gradually building up giving more time and self depending on whether the relationship is only getting better over time and worth continuing?
If you are being you this time around then who was you in the last relationship?
tonymontana
06-04-11, 22:10
Ok so sex is a go then from the get go?
And slowly means you will give less of your time and self to her in the beginning gradually building up giving more time and self depending on whether the relationship is only getting better over time and worth continuing?
If you are being you this time around then who was you in the last relationship?
Hell no, I don't think sex is a no-go at all!
Yes, your description of the new plan is accurate.
'Me' in the last relationship was whoever I felt she thought I was supposed to be. Not her fault at all, but I had some inner insecurity that made me feel I had to 'earn' her. I'm doing my best to internalize the fact that I deserve whatever the hell I want!
Ok Ive just always thougt taking it slowly meant not jumping in the sack for many dates but then I have met some people who tell me they want to take this one slowly and within days to a week they are telling me they had intercourse with this person. Confusing.
Thanks for your responses Tony. Best wishes on your new plans.
Snowy city
07-04-11, 07:29
Ok Ive just always thougt taking it slowly meant not jumping in the sack for many dates but then I have met some people who tell me they want to take this one slowly and within days to a week they are telling me they had intercourse with this person. Confusing. Temptation, Pimpin....
For what i know, if it said by a woman, it means one thing or the other :
1. You really interest me but I am not ready to go so far for physical contact.
2. I am not really into you but I don't want to hurt you by saying it directly.
So boys, try to figure out...
But if it said by a man, it clearly means just one thing : "your are too intense, your are falling in love with me much more than I do for you, back off a bit, would you?".
So girls, just get it.
Temptation, Pimpin....
No doubt you have that dear. I'm said to have that effect on women. Take a deep breath, a number and a seat. I will be with you when I can. Please have your CV ready and while you are waiting fill the five page questionaire out.
Snowy city
07-04-11, 19:48
No doubt you have that dear.
Hush....Pimpin! don't let anybody know..... I'm a naive innocent girl remember?! ^_^
Don't have to remember. I have it down in my roladex under Snowjob.
Don't have to remember. I have it down in my roladex under Snowjob.
Will frost bite be an issue?
But if it said by a man, it clearly means just one thing : "your are too intense, your are falling in love with me much more than I do for you, back off a bit, would you?".
I think I said "let's taking it slow" a few times... and what I meant was exactly like above. And I think it's like after I dunno how many dates, sleepover and a weekend getaway. Having fun times is great, but having fun times "in a relationship" is too much, at least for me.
No doubt you have that dear. I'm said to have that effect on women. Take a deep breath, a number and a seat. I will be with you when I can. Please have your CV ready and while you are waiting fill the five page questionaire out.
Classic Pimpin, klarse!
tonymontana
08-04-11, 07:06
Don't have to remember. I have it down in my roladex under Snowjob.
And then there's that old Northern Canadian classic, the Snowshoejob.
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