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[daverovan]

my wife is not faithful to me, she doesn't know that I know about it. waht should I do?

[MadCat]

Optionally change locks and make sure she's not going to take off with your stuff. Do this after what CA said :D

[Wombatasaurous]

Ha Ha ha , you are seriously asking the internet for help on this - SAD!

[Littlest Hobo]

my wife is not faithful to me, she doesn't know that I know about it. waht should I do?

Poor you. Tell her you know about the affair and then talk, whether it's worth it to keep the marriage going. If you both love each other, you'll survive! Not worth living with lies and don't be a whimp!


Any poor bastard who has money in Europe, particularly in the UK wants to be very careful. Landesbank (ICESAVE in the UK) has just gone pop. So we can add that to the growing list of disasters.
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Yes, banks going downhill everywhere, not only in UK. Even Iceland is nearly bankrupt. Not safe to put money in bank, limit is only £35k. Shares gone bust. properties slashing down.... that's why I just keep spending the money to keep everybody in employment. Keep shopping at M&S!

[Littlest Hobo]

Thank God for spendthrifts like you. There would be a recession in the UK if it wan't for people like you.

Pity you husbands bank balance though.

And it's 50K from tomorrow...

yes, if it's not my spending, a lot more shops will go downhill!!

haven't you heard about equal opportunity in marriage? what's his is mine, what's mine is mine.

yes heard about the £50k bit. Not worth to get worked out. Look at Northern Rock, once people were queueing for miles and miles to draw their money, now it is the safest place for the dosh.

[Littlest Hobo]

Hell, would I laugh if it was old silly bollocks with

I'd love it if she decided that a bit of young cock that wasn't likely to croak at a moments notice was preferable to some festering old shitbag, and she fucked off with the lot. I'd be tempted to have a go myself but having seen the little daffodil, I'll give it a miss.

Are you Gordon Ramsay's brother by any chance!! you can cook but by heck, your language is .... can't even say it... awful!

[Littlest Hobo]

I thought he was a Londoner? just looked at him on Wikip..he is Scottish...I think because his restaurants are mainly down south!

What are you like? I just can't believe that you can even make dendeng?? are you sure you are not a Chef in any other life? Things like that, we never knew or saw how it was made! We always buy dendeng readymade. You are unmistakenly a graduated weirdo!

[Wombatasaurous]

Graduated Weirdo?

Does that mean that his feet are not weird, but the weirdness increases inch by inch as you progress up towards the head?

[Wombatasaurous]

No thank you, trying to look after my figure. I do not mind the odd Chocolate Hob Nob while waiting for further information regarding cheating girlfriends/wifes/pembantu's etc. etc.

[Wombatasaurous]

They were not pork scratchings, they were leftovers from the Surabaya STD clinic being recycled

[Ishtar^Summer]

Where's The Thread Starter ????

Ask Your Wife

"Can We Do Sandwich Sex ??? "

:D

http://www.kaskus.us/images/smilies/sumbangan/005.gif

Nah
Kidding
Seriously...
Ask Your Wife Why She Did That
And Ask Yourself WHy Ur Wife Betrayed You
What Did You Do
Or
What Things You Dont Do
There's Always A Reason For Woman Why She Commit An Affair

If The Answer Is You Still Doing Good
Nothing Wrong
Then Just Dump Her
Devote Your Life To One Worthy Woman Who Value You As You...

[Eddyr]

Tie up all your assets !!! Then ... start cheating on her ... when she finds out explain that you thought it would be OK because she was doing it and if she doesn't like it then she can piss off. If you're in Indo rest assured you won't have to sit around crying and spangkin' the monkey.

[Littlest Hobo]

Tie up all your assets !!! Then ... start cheating on her ... when she finds out explain that you thought it would be OK because she was doing it and if she doesn't like it then she can piss off. If you're in Indo rest assured you won't have to sit around crying and spangkin' the monkey.

revenge will not make it better... ouch...bad advice!! watch out for flying saucepans...

[d3adl1ne]

my wife is not faithful to me, she doesn't know that I know about it. waht should I do?

do you still wanna be with her? if yes then confront her, get a photographic evidence, kick the shit out of the other guy, charge him big $$$ for sleeping with your wive plus tips and tax, but if you dont wanna be with her anymore then do what CA and madcat says! still kick the shit out of that guy, post the photos to this forum and get banned :D, and dont tip her :p

goodluck!

[MadCat]

Kicking the shit out of the guy preferrably as last item in the to-do list. Chicks dig scars, you know.

[d3adl1ne]

Kicking the shit out of the guy preferrably as last item in the to-do list. Chicks dig scars, you know.

well if you decided to leave her, you wont be caring about that afterwards rite? :D
or of course, alternatively, you can drink yourself to death and listen to barry manilow or lionel richie or even britney spears all day.

[brownie]

my wife is not faithful to me, she doesn't know that I know about it. waht should I do?

so just kick her out from the house ....once she cheat on you she will never stop that .....

[sepatubutut]

my wife is not faithful to me, she doesn't know that I know about it. waht should I do?

Get her on "Playboy Kabel" show!!!! :D

[PNicoll]

I myself would prefer a more civilized manner. I hope my input hasn't come too late. This one you can consider if you still want to keep the marriage.

When a spouse cheats, most often than not the problem starts with the couple's relationship. The cheating is usually just the 'smoke' not the 'fire'. Take a look at your relationship with your wife. Has it gone sour or more like a formality/routine? Maybe you two are too busy with life and kids that you both has forgotten to keep the spark alive. Some people say that relationship is like a plant; it'll die if you don't give enough water and food regularly. I believe it's true. Relationships do need effort to keep. Keep an open mind and look at your relationship condition as objectively as you can. If you see a problem, meaning that the relationship is not like it used to be, then I don't think there's a need to confront her with her actions. I know this doesn't apply to every woman, but most women won't risk family over some shallow pleasure unless she's in desperate need of something that's lacking in her relationship with her husband. Talk about your relationship with her, how you want things to be back like how it was, how you want to have her cooperation to make that work. I must warn you, you'll need to keep your emotions under control to do this (I know you're hurt, but aggression is not the solution) and you both will go through awkward moments to tell each other how you feel. If you think it's too hard to do, seeking help to a couple's counsellor would be very wise. No need to feel ashamed to do that, many people has successfully salvaged their marriage that way.

Hopefully once the communication and romance is back on track, the cheating will stop because there is no more reason for her to cheat. If the cheating doesn't stop after all that hard work, you might want to confront her with what you know. But again, although you're terribly hurt try not to throw kitchen utensils around the house, especially the knives! :D

Hope this helps. Let us know how it goes. At least you'll feel better by telling someone about it. Feel free to PM me if you want. Good luck.

[biggirldon'tcry]

First of all,im really sorry to hear that.just been through that kinda hard time in my life too.good thing that we're not married so no bank account,stuffs involved.good bye,n thats it.in ur case,many things need to be considered.
first r u really sure that she's cheating on u?maybe she's just hang out with her friends.im not defend her,but women tend to have less affair than guys.im sorry guys,u all can boo me for saying that:)When women commit to a relationship they will not go anywhere.n im pretty sure im not the only one who have that thought.
so, i guess its better for u to talk to her.n let her know what u know n feel.im not saying that u are wrong, but maybe u have different perception.n having good conversation will make things clear,im sure.
but if its true,then its ur decision.if u can forgive her,why not taking her back?people make mistake in their life.no one perfect,n u know that.well im chatolic,n i grew up in a family which don't see divorce as an option.i guess 'till death do us apart' is a promise?forgive her,n start to move on.dont look back.
but if u can't deal with it,it also depends on u.u just follow what ur heart tells u.if its not worthy to be fighting for,then u know what to do.
I do really hope that things will get better soon for u both.i know it hurts,but u'll get through of it.n sharing in this forum really worked for me,especially in ladies chat:)once again,thanks gals:)

[Ela.K3000]

Where are you daverovan?????? your not here while people give you an advise... :confused:

[bill_sg]

find out yourself to what extent she is going nasty and bitchy....google how to install hidden camera at home...prove that she is cheating on you!! If she is cheating, think of divorcing her and move on with your life dude!!